SHE’S ENGAGED

Who is engaged? One of my very beautiful clients.

In 2021 I got to do a tarot reading for a lovely young lady who was at a crossroads in a relationship. I told her that there was someone else for her, but she found this hard to comprehend. We talked about getting caught in negative relationship patterns and the beliefs that we make that keep us stuck. Her rational side agreed that there had been a certain amount of anxiety over letting this relationship go, and that it had created a lot of anxiety and insecurity by staying together. But there were still emotional ties and beliefs that needed to be cleared.

I suggested that we work together using EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique)/Matrix Reimprinting to delve deeper into the beliefs that she held around relationships and what was keeping her stuck in this situation.

Initially they had met at university, (her first relationship) but she wasn’t sure when she first met him if she was really attracted to him. However, they got together. There was a part of her that knew this person wasn’t the one, but she kept ignoring the red flags and making excuses for the unacceptable behaviour. Adapting to make the relationship work. It had been very on and off for years and my client was not being her authentic self.

There was also an element of competition. Every time they separated it was as though she needed to prove she could win him back. The initial reconciliation would be exciting, but it would last a very short time, for my client to be disappointed and not know where the relationship was going once again. There was no evidence of any type of commitment, which was something that my client was searching for. Although she did not realise this herself at the time. Very often we convince ourselves that we are not looking for something when in fact it is very important to us. Hence, you can send out mixed messages. Especially if you tell yourself that you don’t want commitment, when in fact, that is exactly what you are looking for.

By processing some of the very strong emotions that the ex-partner had triggered in my client. We were able to establish that my client was afraid of love and afraid of rejection. She also realised that he really wasn’t for her and cut ties with him. They stopped communicating and she took his number out of her phone. She was incredible. This was such a huge step – woohoo!!!!!

She met other people but none of them were good enough for her, but the wonderful realisation was that she started to recognise this herself because of the self-work she was doing.

We worked around what she really wanted in a man. What traits he would have, how he would act and behave. There were also some family expectations that we had to deal with in the Matrix but she was ready to move her life forward in a positive way. The biggest belief was that she didn’t love herself. When that aha moment came, everything changed. She started to do the things she loved to do. She made herself a priority. Her actions and deeds were authentic. She started to embrace her true self.

Out with the old and in with the new. A new high vibrational being who really did love who she was and wasn’t going to have to change anything to be with someone. A moment of acceptance. That was last July. My work was done. I had facilitated a beautiful healing journey. My client had done all the hard work.

Today she made me smile with delight when I received a photograph of her with her fiancé. A beautiful diamond ring on her finger. Her words were

“Thank you for all your help last year, it changed my life”.

 “I manifested him, he is perfect”.

And so, it is. A story with a happy ending and I am so grateful to do this work. To step back into the memories, unravel the beliefs that create self-doubt, lack of self-worth and see someone bloom and grow.

I wish my client lots of love and luck for the future, but I have a feeling that she’s got it sussed.

Staying in a relationship that isn’t good for you is a type of abuse, even if it’s not physical. The biggest step you can take is break the pattern.

If you would like to know more about the work that I do, working with EFT(Emotional Freedom Technique) Tapping/Matrix Reimprinting. You can pop over to my website or book a free consultation to see if this therapy is for you.

If you find yourself in a similar situation the the Clearing in the Akashics on 1st January may benefit you as it is clearing toxicity and abuse.

Love and Light

Lorraine xx